family problems involving foreign brides?
a few years back my uncle, who couldn’t find a wife here in the us, went to vietnam to find a wife. they got married here. they haven’t had kids and it’s been four years. my aunt’s are worried that she’s using him. she became a naturalized us citizen last week. immediately after passing the test she called home to vietnam to inform her family of her success. everyone in my family are worried that she’s gonna use her rights of citizenship to bring her vietnam family here. my aunts and uncle live together along with my other uncle and his wife and kids. there happens to be extra rooms in the house so my uncle’s vietnamese wife is trying to bring them over. the rest of my family don’t want that even though there’s room because it’s gonna be difficult living with strangers. now they’re afraid she’s gonna threaten for divorce if they don’t let her family come here. this has happened to my cousin before who also married a vietnamese wife and now he’s broke and single. what should my family do?
ps. my brother is thinking of marrying a vietnamese wife from vietnam too. he’s in vietnam right now. my parents don’t want that because they’re afraid she’s gonna use him to bring her family over.
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wow thats weird. tell all your uncles, brother, cousins ect (every man in your family) that there are lots of nice ladies in america..
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I can defintely understand your natural emotion to be scared and protective of your family. the question is would trying to stop them help them in the end or would it make them really miserable and upset at you. Personally if i were in your situation i’d feel lost. I’d feel confused. I’d want to make sure my family was safe. especially if it’s not the first time this has happened in the family. I would talk to my uncle and discuss my fears. If this is his concern too have him exokain to his wife his situation. Maybe go to a counseler with the wife and Uncle and see if there is just a miscommunication goign on. Sometimes that can happen when emotions get involved. I’d warn your brother about whats going on. However, if he’s “in love” nothing will stop him. so i guess my advice is openly talk to everyone involved and see whats really going on. If she wants to file for divorce because of it then im sure a judge would understand if he said everything that happened.
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i would be worried to. im not sure if there’s anything that you can do though. i just hope that’s not what happens. hopefully your brother learns from this to and history does not repeat itself. of course i can’t say all women are like this though.
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Even for a naturalized US citizen you are only allowed to bring your parents over, no brothers, sisters, or any one else. I’m married to a Vietnamese lady who is only a permanent resident, while her sister came to the US previously and became a citizen, yet she hasn’t petitioned anyone from their family over to the US, nor has she divorced her husband, though they are broke and have two kids. Your uncle’s wife may have high hopes, but I think she’s mistaken. The US immigration policy is very strict, only fiance’s, wives, children, skilled and professional workers, wealthy people, and sometimes parents of naturalized citizens are allowed in, and for most of those types of people it’s a long wait and very expensive.
As for your fears of a Vietnamese planet, I think that’s coming from racism. I married a Vietnamese person because I love Asian people, always have. I dated and lived with Asian people all my life, and finally met one over there and thought that would be perfect, and I lived there with her and it was great and now she’s here and it’s great. People are just people, some rich, some poor, some born in crummy corrupt countries, but still they might be raised by good honest loving parents and turn out fine, like my wife. You have to take each person as an individual, and not assume anything. If there was a way for your starving mother to move to a rich country where you could take care of her, wouldn’t you do it?
And trust me, Asian people make the best strangers to get to know, they don’t expect much, don’t complain, and are quiet and polite to the extreme, not to mention generous. I moved right into my wife’s family’s house in Vietnam and lived with them for six months, and was welcomed with open arms, never once having a problem, sharing a single bathroom with five other people…
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OooMMMMMMGGGGGGGGGGGGG….Seriously are there no vietnamese women over here?! Get ur male members of your family to some social or something. If she does get a divorce than she forfeits her “naturalization” if she only got a green card. because it takes FIVE YEARS of living with your sponser if it was husband to officially have it freely without conditions. My stepdad married his exwife for his greencard, which he freely admits. And had to stay married for five years after recieving it to be able to have it without conditions. Look it up because everyone who gets greencard etc in to US have conditions to it a for a few years after recieving
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I would love one day to find a Vietnamese, Japanese, Korean or Chinese woman and fall in love and marry her. The problem is women once they come over here many of them act like a tiger that’s been lose out of a cage. I have known of them having a child then divorcing the man and tacking half of everything. He needs to talk to her and see if it’s just a visit or if they are wanting to come here to live. If she is using him he will know. She will start acting different and begin demanding more and more out of him. When it get to where he either will not give or can not, then she will divorce him. I think they need to put off the in-laws visit for a year. If one or two want to come and stay a few weeks that’s fine but not forever. I wish him the best of luck.
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does your uncle know that your cousin is now single and broke ? does your brother know that your cousin is now single and broke and does your brother know what your uncle’s wife is planning to do with her family in vietnam ? again remind everyone in your family of the foreign bride/wife patterns and games. and you should also talk to your uncle’s wife and let her know what you think and how you feel. and if you happen to see your brother’s ex wife you should also talk to her. confront these women and hopefully not all these women are users.
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