clementine asked:

a few years back my uncle, who couldn’t find a wife here in the us, went to vietnam to find a wife. they got married here. they haven’t had kids and it’s been four years. my aunt’s are worried that she’s using him. she became a naturalized us citizen last week. immediately after passing the test she called home to vietnam to inform her family of her success. everyone in my family are worried that she’s gonna use her rights of citizenship to bring her vietnam family here. my aunts and uncle live together along with my other uncle and his wife and kids. there happens to be extra rooms in the house so my uncle’s vietnamese wife is trying to bring them over. the rest of my family don’t want that even though there’s room because it’s gonna be difficult living with strangers. now they’re afraid she’s gonna threaten for divorce if they don’t let her family come here. this has happened to my cousin before who also married a vietnamese wife and now he’s broke and single. what should my family do?

ps. my brother is thinking of marrying a vietnamese wife from vietnam too. he’s in vietnam right now. my parents don’t want that because they’re afraid she’s gonna use him to bring her family over.

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